Happy Sunday!
Thursday nights are our "Joe and Jack" and "Mommy and Mindy & Matthew" nights. We picked one night where we split up and spend time with our respective kids. We're a blended family. Blending a family is tough. I don't think I've ever met someone that has said blending 2
families is easy. When we moved in with Joe and Jack, the kids were pretty great but it was extremely hard on them. They had change happening everywhere. Their Dad was already engaged. They were moved twice by me into 2 different houses. First mine and then Joe's. Now, they have to adjust to living with 2 new people and adjust yet again. So, Joe and I decided, instead of shoving the unified family thing down their throat, we would take the time to just spend time with them outside of the blended
family.
So, every Thursday, Joe and Jack go out to dinner. And I hang out with Mindy and Matt. This past Thursday, I was eating Chinese food with Mindy and watching TV with her. Matt came home from work and was ready for "his" time with me. Oh yeah... somehow this evolved into separate 1:1 times. They literally fought over when Mindy's time would end and Matt's would begin. I thought they were going to start to wrestle right in the
middle of the family room. I was ready to get the popcorn!
This was crazy and I was getting angry. And then... Mindy said, "Mom, you are so lucky. Your kids are fighting over spending time with you. My friends hate their Moms and would never hang out with them. But we're fighting over you."
I was speechless. She's right. I AM lucky. So very lucky and grateful.
It's easy to forget to be grateful for all that we have in our life.
Do you know what else I am grateful for? You. Truly.
It's amazing to get up everyday and run this business... doing what I love... and connecting with you. I love reading your letters and watching your transformations. Thank you for following me. Thank you for opening my emails.
Thank you for your feedback and thoughts... and yes, even criticisms. Thank you for sharing with me and being a positive energy in my life.
Remember gratitude. It's a powerful energy that will reflect back on you in ways you can't see right now.
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*HUGS*
Jen